I worry my husband wants us to have sex in public but it makes me uncomfortable
DEAR DEIDRE: WE’VE had sex in the car, on the couch and even in the garden and now my husband has suggested we try other places.
I’m at a loss. Where else is there? I’m no prude and am up for trying new things but where exactly is he thinking of?
We have sex a couple of times a week and often do the “full works” with oral sex too so I’m wondering why he isn’t satisfied. I’m 37 and he’s 38.
Years ago we went on holiday to Jamaica and one evening we had sex on a sun lounger. That seemed to really turn him on.
So perhaps he means he wants to have more outdoor sex. But I worry that someone might see us.
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DEIDRE SAYS: The only way you are going to find out where your husband wants to have sex is through asking.
From your reaction it sounds as if you feel under pressure to please him.
Talk to him about what you would also enjoy. That way you are both focused on a generous sex life.
Although you have sex regularly, perhaps you have got into a bit of a rut.
I’m sending my support pack 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex which will give you some different ideas on how to change things between you.
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